Do You Have a Alcohol or Drug Problem? - Alcohol and drug use can progress
into abuse and even addition so insidiously that sometimes people do not
realize that their drinking or drugging has become a real problem for them and
those around them.
AlcoholScreening.org- If you consume alcoholic beverages, it's important
to know whether your drinking patterns are safe, risky or harmful. This site
can help you find out.
Are You Alcohol Dependent? - Alcoholics are certainly alcohol-dependent.
But they’re not the only ones with this problem.
Cyber Sober
- The
resource for recovery of alcoholics, narcotics, gamblers, and overeaters. More
than 100,000 meetings, hospitals and treatment centers with maps and directions.
HOW CAN I HELP
THEM?
How Can I Get Him to Stop?
- When family members of those who are
alcohol dependent ask the above question about the drinker in their lives,
the answer is never simple.
Enabling
- Many times when family and friends try to "help" alcoholics they are
actually making it easier for them to continue in the progression of the
disease.
Denial -
One of the most frustrating factors in dealing with
alcoholism as a relative friend or professional is it is almost always
accompanied by a phenomenon known as "denial."
Detachment- For the friends and family of
the alcoholic the key to serenity is finding the wisdom to know the
difference between what they can and cannot change.
Games Families Play (Part II)
If you find your self locked in to playing a role in
the alcoholic's life maybe it's time to call "time out."
Al-Anon Meeting Topics
- A discussion of 40
topics of interest to families of alcoholics and newcomers to Al-Anon.
Intervention
- Sometimes when the alcoholic's problems
reach the crisis level the only choice left to his family is professional
intervention.
Another View of Intervention
- A new book suggests that families may not
be as powerless as they have been lead to believe in intervening with an
alcoholic or addict family member.
Adult Children
- Most of us who grew up in families
affected by the disease of alcoholism never did really grow up in many ways.
Is Your Teenager Using?
- If your child is using alcohol and drugs
it's a good bet he (or she) is probably doing everything possible to keep
that activity hidden.
Growing Up 'Alcoholically'- Growing up in home with an
active alcoholic can effect how a child looks at life and almost everything
in it.
Learn more about
depression From LessonsForLiving.com:
As we look back, we feel we had
gone on drinking many years beyond the point where we could quit on our will
power. If anyone questions whether he has entered this dangerous area, let him
try leaving liquor alone for one year. If he is a real alcoholic and very far
advanced, there is scant chance of success. In the early days of our drinking we
occasionally remained sober for a year or more, becoming
serious drinkers again later. Though you may be able to stop for a considerable
period, you may yet be a potential alcoholic. We think few, to whom this book
will appeal, can stay dry anything like a year. Some will be drunk the day after
making their resolutions; most of them within a few weeks."
~Alcoholics Anonymous, 4th Edition, More About
Alcoholism, pg. 34~
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